Altared: The True Story of a She, a He, and how They Both Got Too Worked Up about We

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WaterBrook Press, 2012 - Religion - 250 pages
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"Altared is a must-read for young Christians hungering for a realistic, biblically rich take on love and marriage in the twenty-first century."
--Katelyn Beaty, editor, Christianity Today magazine, Her.meneutics

Mar*riage-hap*py \mar´-ij-hap´eŻ\ adj 1: Having an inordinate preoccupation with marital pursuits, sometimes at the cost of other Christian priorities, commonly seen in evangelicals. 2: A giddiness stemming from all things related to marriage.
In the frenzied pursuit of romance, Christians sometimes lose sight of the greatest commandments: to love God and to love others. Distracted by wedding bells and exuberant hopes for a happily-ever-after, Christians often forget the greater vision of Christ's call to love.
What if God is less worked up about marriage than we are?
With honesty and insight, Claire and Eli ask us to shift our thinking away from marriage or singleness and toward love and discipleship.
Drawing from luminaries like Augustine, the Desert Fathers, and Bonhoeffer, they invite you to join their real-life exploration of love as they convincingly demonstrate why a love for God and for one's neighbor are to be our top priorities, whether we are single or married.

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User Review  - Smoothie71 -

I almost didn't get Altared by Claire and Eli. I wasn't super into the idea of reading another book about marriage. Most of you that know me well enough to know my stance on singleness- it being a ... Read full review

Unpolished & Non-Traditional Book on Marriage

User Review  - Stlphotogirl -

"ALTARED: The true story of a SHE, a HE, and how they both got too worked up on about the WE" is non-traditional look at marriage in the Christian culture. The authors, Claire and Eli, willingly admit ... Read full review


IJ Purple Days
2J Love Thy Neighbor
3 The Train Rumbles Through
4 Tattered Ledgers I I
5 SelfDenial and the TyrannyofMine
6 Those Who Have FlungThemselves
7 Focus Offthe Family?
3 What Would It Mean?
II Beach Balls and Sex Talks
IE Loneliness the Ache
i3 Solitude the Posture
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Appendix B Love

9 Tips from Tolstoy l 14 7

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About the author (2012)

Claire is a writer who originally hails from Cincinnati, Ohio. She graduated from Wheaton College with a bachelor's degree in English with a concentration in writing. After Wheaton, she worked as an assistant editor for Christianity Today before moving to New York City to work in the Corporate Communications Headquarters for The New York Times. From there, she became an editorial assistant for Penguin Classics and Penguin Books. Claire's writing has been published by Christianity Today, Books & Culture and First Things.
Eli is a lawyer and writer originally from Turlock, California, the home of Silva's Taqueria. Eli received his law degree from The University of Chicago Law School and then went on to practice antitrust litigation as an associate at an international law firm in San Francisco. During school, Eli spent two summers as a clerk in the Homicide Bureau of the Brooklyn District Attorney's office. Before that, he worked in music as an A&R Manager at Tooth & Nail Records in Seattle. Eli's writing has been published by Books & Culture.

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