Singing Mother Home: A Psychologist's Journey Through Anticipatory Grief
What happens when an expert on grief is faced with the slow decline of her beloved mother? Like A Grief Observed by C. S. Lewis, Singing Mother Home offers the reader an inside look at the struggles of someone who is an "expert" in coping with loss. Donna S. Davenport was forced to rethink the traditional academic approach to the process, which implied that the goal of grief resolution was to end the attachment to the loved one. Instead, she embarked on a personal exploration of her own anticipatory grief.
This intimate narrative forms the core of her book. It is emotionally wrenching, but it also provides hope for those going through similar experiences. Just as Davenport used her family's tradition of singing to comfort her mother, readers will be encouraged to find their own sources of comfort in family and legacy. The book concludes with two chapters describing psychological approaches to grief and recommending further reading.
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Page viii - TEMPLE OF THE TORTOISES In this court vast as the sun rests and dances a stone sun, naked before the sun; he too is naked. 2. NOON Light unblinking, time empty of minutes, a bird stopped short in air. 3. LATER Light flung down, the pillars awake and, without moving, dance. 4. FULL SUN The time is transparent: even if the bird is invisible, let us see the color of his song. 5. RELIEFS The rain, dancing, long-haired, ankles slivered by lightning, descends, to an accompaniment of drums: the corn opens...